「我不瘦,但老公仍選擇了我!」肉肉女尋覓真愛,滿滿正能量激勵人心!

「我很驚喜這麼多人關注到我們的婚姻生活,但我們也只是住在中西部,一對喜歡帶狗散步的普通夫妻而已。」

一對男女在海邊的沙灘上自在地漫步,他們輕擁著彼此,嘴角洋溢著幸福的笑容,看著彼此的眼神中充滿著愛意。或許有點太閃,但這幅再正常不過的甜蜜畫面,被 PO 上 Instagram 後卻瞬間攻占各大社群媒體版面,原因是因為女子的「身材」。

5 bucks if you can guess what I’m whispering in @jennakutcher’s ear. Caption this! 🗣👂🏻👀 📸 @mrslindseyroman

Drew Kutcher(@kickingitwithkutch)分享的貼文 於 張貼

來自美國威斯康辛州的 Jenna Kutcher 是一名 30 歲的攝影師,和大多數的女性一樣,因為身材並非一般大眾認為窈窕纖細的「典型美女」,而一直在和「瘦身」奮鬥,直到她認識了擔任健身教練,暱稱「六塊肌先生」(Mr. Six-Pack)的 Drew Kutcher 之後,Jenna 的人生逐漸豁然開朗。

IT’S BACHELOR NIGHT! Have you tried ‘The Bachelor Workout’ yet? Well maybe tonight is the night! I found a similar version online and thought it was pretty hilarious! Thanks @theodysseyonline! #thebachelor 😂🌹🍷 Here are the rules: 1. When a rose is mentioned: do 10 jumping jacks. 2. When the date card arrives: plank until the girls stop obsessing over who gets to go (or 30 seconds). 3. When a girl cries: do 10 sit-ups. 4. When Ari says that he “has a great connection” with one of the girls: do 10 squats. 5. When one of the girls says the phrase “I could really see myself marrying him”: do 20 bicycle kicks. 6. When one of the girls says that she’s “there for the right reasons”: do 10 push ups. 7. When one of the girls complain about being on a group date: do a 30 second wall sit. 8. When Ari kisses someone: 5 burpees. 9. When one of the girls interrupts Ari talking to another girl: 15 v-ups. 10. When Chris Harrison says: “THE MOST DRAMATIC EPISODE EVER!”: do 20 sit-ups. . But for real though....how old is Bekah M!? Anyone? 🤔🤣 . @janelle.sutton - I’m still using your pics! You rock!

Drew Kutcher(@kickingitwithkutch)分享的貼文 於 張貼

He’s a total softie when it comes to little dogs, he’s striving to become Jack from “This Is Us,” and he just brought home four different kinds of GF mac and cheese so I wouldn’t be disappointed. ✨ He has a heart of gold, abs of steel, and he’s the most loyal human I’ve ever met. He’s been my best friend for the last ten years, has grieved with me through our miscarriages, taken risks that have scared the heck out of him, and held my hand in church on Sunday. ✨ Ladies, wait for the man that loves you well, that wakes up every day and chooses you, that comes alive in your presence and poses for stupid Instagram photos with a smile. Choose the man who celebrates your power, is your number one fan and who handles the urgency of a mac and cheese craving like a champ. ✨ Don’t look for the one who completes you, you are already whole and complete. This isn’t about being worthy, you already are. It’s about waiting for the one who recognizes that worthiness and wholeness every single day.

JENNA KUTCHER(@jennakutcher)分享的貼文 於 張貼

「這個男人願意擁抱我身體的每個線條,每一道皺摺,每一磅甚至臉上的痘痘,結婚 11 年來,他也不斷地提醒我讓我知道我有多美。」

她坦承和老公結婚時,心裡曾感到些許的「不安」,但不安的來源,只是因為她擁有一個長得「還不錯」的六塊肌老公?難道只是因為她不夠瘦,就不配擁有他嗎?

How great is she!? I could just eat her up!! After @jennakutcher’s crazy webinar week two weeks ago she jumped immediately into recording 12 @goaldiggerpodcast episodes and 4 interviews in less than 48 hours, built an entire website for her Mastermind students, rocked out tons of other work things I can’t even comprehend and had time to clean out/organize a gross closet in our guest bedroom! 😳😳 Which is a huge score for a crazy OCD dude such as myself. How does she do it all in a day!? She is just a BOSS! 👑 I love her and couldn’t be more appreciative of her work ethic! 📸 @jane_johnson - (While I type this Jenna is at yoga class, which was preceded by a hair appointment. Well deserved R&R time, am I right!? 🙏🏼💇🏼🤷🏼‍♀️)

Drew Kutcher(@kickingitwithkutch)分享的貼文 於 張貼

儘管照片放上網後,湧進如洪水般的留言和訊息,Jenna 也被許多人質問:「為什麼妳可以有這麼帥的老公?」但現在的她選擇坦然面對,並勇敢地說:「對,我的大腿之間沒有任何縫隙,我的手臂也很粗壯、屁屁也不小,但是我老公選擇我的原因,遠超過這些外表的條件,而我也幸運選擇了能夠接受這樣的我的他!」充滿正能量的回應,引起上萬網友感動相挺。

然而 Jenna 也不是一開始就能如此勇敢坦白,在過去的人生中,她也面對了很長時間的掙扎,掙扎著學會去「愛自己」。由於過去接連兩次的流產,讓她對於自己不斷失去信心:「身為一個女人,我想在內心深處,我們最大的擔憂就是覺得自己永遠都不夠,尤其是在生理上面對兩次的破碎,我真的花了很長時間重新接納自己的身體。」

當她和老公穿著泳裝並肩走在沙灘上時,路人不經意的目光常讓她腦中閃過:「為什麼妳可以和這樣的男人走在一起?我這麼胖,他應該值得更好的女人。」所以她決定寫下這些人們可能沒說,腦中卻正在想的念頭。

幫助 Jenna 一塊塊重建破碎的自信心,老公 Drew 可說是最大功臣,即使她幾天沒洗澡,或穿著破舊的高中校服褲,在 Drew 眼中,她都可以看見自己的價值與美麗。「我知道依賴別人來獲取自信很不健康,所以我發展了自己的事業,讓自己先學會放下,將焦點轉移到其他人身上。」

現在 Jenna 和 Drew 最常做的事就是一起運動健身,他們會一起上瑜珈課或是跑馬拉松,即使Drew 拍下的每一張照片都讓她很想立刻刪除,但「六塊肌先生」說:「我只是想捕捉妳每個美麗的瞬間。」

身材不是審視一個人的標準,更不是一個人能否獲得幸福的一把尺。Jenna 希望鼓勵所有女孩:「我收到很多女孩的訊息,告訴我她們因為和一個好看的男人結婚而感到沒安全感,但我們腦海中的小劇場往往不是真的,妳們每個人也都值得像我一樣被愛,希望透過這段對話,能夠讓妳們相信自己獨特的美和力量。」

原文出處:女子學



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